Friday Fix: You've Started a Conversation at a Conference Mixer - Now It's Starting to Dry Up

How to turn small talk at a work event into an actual connection

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You did the hard part. You walked over, introduced yourself, asked a good opening question.

Now you’re four exchanges in, and the conversation is starting to feel like two people taking turns answering questions — polite, but flat.

This is the moment most networking conversations quietly die. It’s also the moment a small shift in how you respond can turn a polite exchange into a conversation someone actually remembers.

The Situation

You’re at an industry mixer. You successfully started a conversation with someone new, and the basics are covered — names, companies, roles. But four exchanges in, things are starting to feel like an interview rather than a conversation, with both of you reaching for the next question.

The Challenge

Write your response so that it:

· Respond to something they just said, instead of asking a new unrelated question

· Share something real about yourself in return, without making it about you

· Encourage them to keep talking, genuinely

Have a go before scrolling down.

Phrases you’ll need for this one:

· Oh, that’s interesting — what made you get into that?

· That’s funny, I had something similar happen when...

· Tell me more about that.

· How did that actually play out?

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